Melting your heart is perhaps more difficult. You are rather skeptical to love and in general to everything connected with it. Perhaps this attitude was formed as a result of bad experience. It cannot be said that you do not allow the possibility of falling in love at all, however, you do not strive for this, but somehow it does not come by itself. Try to look at this feeling differently, find positive aspects in it, and then love will surely penetrate your heart and make it beat faster, experiencing the most wonderful moments!
You know how to disconnect from the daily routine and enjoy solitude away from the hustle and bustle. You are not afraid of work, but at the same time, you do notget stuck solely on the daily tasks that you face. In other words, as soon as there is an opportunity to relax and pamper yourself with the atmosphere of relaxation, you will certainly use it and allow yourself a real, full-fledged vacation, even if, sometimes, even a very short one. Such things as energy burnout and wear and tear are unfamiliar to you, because you will never allow these extremes for yourself. It remains only to wish you as many such moments as possible ...
What you need to understand is your own environment. Take a look around and analyze whether the people around you are the ones you really deserve. Often you have to deal with those problems that often have nothing to do with you, but the responsibility for them rests on your shoulders. Try to understand who in your life should fade into the background, and who should be seen next to you more often. Perhaps this will affect your life in a positive way and it will become much more interesting to meet a new day.
It is not sad, but you have to state the fact that you are experiencing life's hardships with great difficulty, which, in turn, frighten you greatly and completely devastate your inner world. Your tendency to apathy has already played a cruel joke on you more than once, however, you are in no hurry to take it for life experience, rather, you call such a combination of circumstances a fate that cannot be changed in any way. Perhaps you should pull yourself together, believe in yourself and boldly walk through life, finding something useful for yourself even in difficulties. Believe me, overcoming your own fear, you will feel an incredible amount of energy in yourself, which you just need to dispose of for your own needs and achieve new horizons. Good luck!
By nature, you are an absolute romantic, therefore, being in a couple, you try to spend every free minute with the object of adoration. It cannot be said that all other areas of life are not important for you, but, fluttering on the wings of love, you often lose interest, for example, in the work area. In life, it is difficult for you to live without love and you are burdened by the state when your heart is not occupied by anyone. When you fall in love, everything goes by the wayside, so meetings with friends and family, as a rule, occur only on some important issue. It cannot be said that you are fundamentally wrong, because your inspiration should only please those who care about you. You get pleasure from love, and this is not bad at all ...
You may not notice it, but often in relationships with people things do not work out the way you would like. The reason lies precisely in you, or rather, in your dashing disposition. You can easily tell your truth to the face of a person without thinking about the consequences. On the one hand, of course, it is better to be honest than deceitful, on the other hand, not always and not everyone needs this truth. Try to be at least sometimes a little softer, people will reach out to you and among them there will definitely be those who will play a rather significant role in your life...
If you have sincere feelings and incredible attraction towards the partner, then you can easily look at such shortcomings as bad habits through your fingers. Of course, you can express what opinion you have on this matter, but it is below your own dignity to force a drastic change. It should be noted that in relation to yourself, you also do not allow pressure in your address and quickly make it clear to the partner that absolutely every person, including you, has the right to personal boundaries that should not be violated in order to avoid conflicts.
You are the kind of person who can't stand betrayal, so if you notice something like this in someone from your social circle, your relationship immediately goes to "none". Your position in life is such that if a person betrayed you once, then, by all means, (s)he will betray you the second time. You are of the opinion that it is always worth being extremely frank with others and any, even a difficult situation, can always be resolved by choosing a noble line of behavior. Let there be not many friends and acquaintances, for that they will be trusted and honest people, and there is no place for traitors in your destiny...
What can win your heart is the intellect. You have always appreciated people who know a lot of interesting and useful information. When choosing a partner, you will definitely pay attention to how erudite one is and appreciate the ability to conduct almost any conversation. The mind in aggregate in external data, will surely evoke certain feelings in you. If your partner lives up to your expectations, you will definitely try to make her/him the happiest.
You are a fairly open and sociable person, but it should be noted that not everyone can open your soul and talk about something secret. There are quite a few people in your social circle who are eager to talk to you and just spend time in your company. However, despite your openness, you still choose only those who are trustworthy and in whom there is confidence. You are always friendly to new acquaintances and easily make contact, however, this does not mean at all that this will develop into a true friendship. Perhaps you still need to learn to trust people and then you will have even more true friends.
For many of your friends and acquaintances, you are a role model and all this for the simple reason that you have incredible inner strength. which helps you turn what you want into reality. In people, you value determination and if someone asks you for help, you will never refuse, adhering to the principle that the weak must be helped. You are a strong personality and this is your specialty.!
You do not seek to impress and in general, somehow prove yourself in a company or just in a public place. It's more comfortable for you to remain unnoticed in the side, because too much attention confuses you and sometimes even annoy you. In addition, you feel good alone with yourself, with your own thoughts. Fuss, conversations and just a hectic social life tires you, so you often try to retire and stay in the shadows. People like you are called "gray mice", however, this fact does not bother you at all, because you yourself choose this style of behavior for yourself...
You belong to the type of people who will never leave another in trouble and will do everything possible to help, sometimes even a little-known person. If you are asked about something, you always, without even listening to the end, rush to help the person, making every effort. By virtue of his modesty, you rarely turn to someone for help, but all your friends know that if you just ask, they won’t even think, if only to help you. And you managed to win such a reputation with the help of your kind and sympathetic heart..
You have a habit of paying attention to some little things, details, so it’s not so easy to impress you. But it is always difficult for you to resist a charming smile, because this is your weakness. You can close your eyes to the image of a person as a whole if (s)he charms you with a smile and positive energy . You are also firmly convinced that a person with bad intentions cannot have a kind and open smile....
You are not one of those who can be called "humble", because you are skeptical about many generally accepted moral and ethical standards. It doesn’t matter for you whether it’s the first date or the fifth, the main thing is that the two met and they feel good and excessive modesty and shyness are simply enemies this evening. If you liked the person you met and there is even some kind of romantic atmosphere then for sure your dinner will smoothly turn into breakfast and you will drown in each other...
What you do not regret spending time and money for is travel. At the first opportunity, you always try to get out of the house in search of new adventures. You love to spend your leisure time in search of new experiences. You are surrounded by many like-minded people, so you do not have to be bored and every day brings exceptional positive.More »
Your jealousy knows no bounds and often does not allow you or your chosen one to live in peace. And not in all cases your jealousy is justified. All the fault - an excessive sense of ownership and self-doubt. You must understand that your partner is not a thing that belongs only to you. It is necessary to give freedom, otherwise, other will simply get tired of being guilty without guilt and listening to your reproaches. It's safe to say that you constantly quarrel with your partner, blaming for all the sins, often for absolutely no reason. If you don’t learn to pull yourself together and control your emotions, your relationship will not last long. Stop interrogating with addiction and believe that love without betrayal is real! More »
What you can be proud of is the ability to be an absolutely confident person who can always give useful advice in almost any area of life. Unfortunately, not many people can boast of such quality, because in the modern world everyone is mainly concerned only with their own problems. Often you had to lend a reliable shoulder even to unfamiliar people, and those, in turn, are grateful to fate to this day for the fateful meeting with you. It should be noted that for many of your friends you are a clear example of kindness and inner core, with which you want to imitate, without ceasing to admire...More »
If you start a relationship, especially a serious one, then you completely dissolve in this love and expect the same from your partner. You will never tolerate even light, harmless flirting, because it can hurt you a lot. The point here is not at all an excessive sense of ownership, but the fact that you always believe that true love exists and everything that is even slightly connected with betrayal will break off relations once and for all. You can close your eyes to many things, endure and forgive, but not betrayal! Well, your position is quite understandable....More »
Fortunately, such a thing as love failure is a rare guest in your life. And the secret is that starting a relationship with someone, you try not to plunge into them headlong, as if protecting yourself from disappointment. In other words, falling in love, we begin to idealize a person, sometimes turning a blind eye to all his shortcomings. You try not to rush into the abyss of passions, but simply observe. If you notice that a person does not feel love for you, and your relationship is nothing more than passion, then you simply enjoy what is happening, but do not let anyone into your heart. With such a policy, you are not in danger of experiencing love disappointments again and again...More »
One of your favorite activities is shopping. You do not regret for this neither time nor money, since it is shopping that gives you an incomparable pleasure. For the sake of shopping, you are even ready to sacrifice time spent in the company of friends. It is difficult to judge whether it is good or bad, the main thing is that it brings real pleasure to you and you do not spare any time or effort for it....
Your attitude towards sexuality is purely skeptical, because you have some ideas of your own about what can attract in a person. Given the breadth of your inner world and many concepts that diverge from generally accepted ones, sexuality in a person is determined by his attitude to life in general, the ability to impress ... You never considered yourself a beauty and did not bathe in male attention, but it is precisely a certain modesty that is which is so attractive to some men.
You are one of those people who firmly decided for themselves that the bonds of marriage are superfluous and if feelings arise between people, then this is not a reason to run to the registry office. For you, legal marriage is an old-fashioned tradition that gives absolutely no guarantee that you will be together for the rest of your days. Moreover, legal marriage is ridiculous for you to some extent, because there are many cases when a husband and wife openly neglected each other, being in a legal relationship. So no matter how you fall in love, you will always cherish freedom anyway...More »
You cope well with life's difficulties: you know how to objectively evaluate everything, you never give up. Therefore, in hopeless situations, you practically do not find yourself. Of course, optimism plays a huge role in your victories, which gives you vitality and a desire to fight against difficulties. And you forge your happiness without relying on chance or luck. You are used to going to the end in everything, using even the smallest chance. Of course, all this leaves an imprint on your character that is unpleasant for someone, but otherwise success cannot be achieved. Well, the result in the form of good earnings always pleases and inspires to achieve new heights..More »
You, unlike most people, believe that passion is the key to a strong and long relationship. Perhaps, in many ways you are right, because not every couple is given to experience the unique brightness of feelings, turning into pleasure, only when they see each other. You are a supporter of the opinion that everyone meets, falls in love, but not every couple can boast of an inexplicable attraction to each other. In a word, passion for you is a rare and unforgettable phenomenon, which not everyone is given to know...More »